Dose #1We found a new playground. We found it a week before we used it, but it was raining when we found it so we tucked it away for another day, which happened to be this past Saturday.
On Friday night, the night before the Saturday we used the new playground, if you had asked Ava what she would be doing on Saturday morning, this is what you would've heard:
First, Ava wakes up. Then Ava, mommy, and daddy go to coffee shop (shebop) and have daddy's muffin. Then go potty.... and then (excitement is building that she absolutely cannot contain) go to new playground to go slidin and swingin'! (The finale is about ten spinning circles followed by one big not-quite-jumping-jack, but close).
So when you are at a new playground, how do you possibly decide what to do first? You don't decide; instead, you do everything for milliseconds at a time so that it feels like you're doing everything at the same time. Eventually, you land on the couple things you know you really love, and that you always knew you really loved (sliding and swinging) but you had to try out the new stuff too, just to be sure.
After a little bit, a little girl, about four, on a sparkly purple bike with pom-pom-like handle bars pulled up to the really big slide. She got her daddy's okay before getting off her bike and climbing the slide.
It didn't take long at all for Ava and the little girl to start following each other around; eventually there was hand holding and ant watching.
At one point, they were on the swings together. Once they got off, Ava turned square to her new little friend, grabbed her at the shoulders, looked her square in the eyes and said, with excitement she could barely contain, "Wanna go slidin'?"
Friendship.
Dose # 2
We were visiting with some friends and there was another little girl there, right about Ava's age. Ava was playing with a little foam bat that the little girl also wanted to play with. The little girl began to grab at it and her parents scolded her. As you can imagine, at two, she got pretty upset and didn't understand why she couldn't have the bat.
Without hardly any time passing, Ava walked over to the little girl and handed her the bat. Just like that. No words, no explanation, no trying to make her feel better, just doing what she knew would.
Compassion.
One Small Step
Putting all my folded clothes away. Today.
Splurge Thursday
Oh, I don't know. Maybe an ice-cream cone tonight?
3 comments:
Maureen,
What a great way to spend a Saturday-at a new playground!! I wish I was there to see Ava enjoy herself. I,too, finally put all my clothes away. I have been using my second bedroom as a walk-in closet but Mom is visiting and needs to be able to sleep in the bed. So half a day later my closet is now organized according to colors and shirt lengths. All my winter clothes are in the extra closets downstairs and I feel like a new woman with all this organization!
Kristin
Way to go! Neat, tidy, and in your place feels so good; I guess I'm just a glutton for punishment living messy and out of place most of the time:)
Maureen,
It does feel pretty good b/c most of the time I am just like you....messy and with things out of place. Mom's visit forced me to be more organized b/c she needed a place to sleep!
Kristin
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